Although it is most assuredly hackneyed to speak about transportable lessons learned from sports, I still cannot resist that temptation today. In the past 36 hours, several things have occurred that demonstrate – yet again – what sports can teach us all.
Start with the story of Dutch Olympic speed skater, Sven Kramer (who already had a gold medal in his pocket). A clear winner in terms of time in the 10,000 meter race, he ended the race on the “wrong side of the track” so to speak and his victory evaporated.
When he learned of his disqualification, he threw his goggles, he kicked a lane marker, he pushed away his coach’s arm from his shoulders, and he explicitly blamed the coach for the error. While his frustration was understandable, this was hardly exemplary behavior.
The Olympic athlete in question is young (23 years old). Before listening to and following the instructions of his coach gesticulating on the side (the coach being the true “adult/advisor” here), the athlete actually was on the right track and on his way to an Olympic record time. He was clearly exhausted from the grueling race, which might account for his behavior.
But, the rules are the rules, right? Sven Kramer won but he really didn’t.
Here’s another example of a poor display – the NCAA website’s recent advertisement for Focus on Families (now removed) which appeared in apparent violation of the NCAA’s own rules and commitment to diversity and inclusion. And, then there is the Trinity College senior squash player and team captain who lost his composure in a championship match against Yale when he seemed to attack his opponent.
Now the counter-point example.
On Tuesday night, Canadian figure skater Joannie Rochette entered the Olympics short program just days after her mother died of a massive heart attack. She had every reason to make mistakes; just getting onto the ice was an act of enormous courage. And, she skated a program that, in terms of scoring, was a personal best and placed her in third place for the moment.
In an emotional landscape which often has no boundaries, Joannie Rochette actually followed the rules. She abided by the rules regarding mandated elements in a short program, the unspoken rule that when you are chosen to represent your nation – the host nation — at the Olympics, you perform no matter what and her personal rules in terms of how to grieve for and honor her mother.
As one commentator put it, “Rochette may not earn gold. It’s even possible she won’t medal. But her effort Tuesday … night was a focused athlete overcoming the odds – both physically and emotionally – and letting sheer will and determination carry her through a performance.”
Here’s my point.
Neither Sven Kramer, the NCAA nor the Trinity College athlete behaved like role-models – when we expected them to be just that. Joannie Rochette was a role model when we would have been well-prepared for her not to be. In short, in a situation where we would have permitted her to violate the rules, Joannie lived by the rules. In so doing, she can teach all of us about not only talking about rules but embodying them.
